People Change After Getting Married

by Herminne Tonita - Deciding to unit your destiny with that of the person you love for ever is a major step in your life and you have to think over and over again until you are capable of taking the right decision. Before saying "I do!" you always should think at how your life will change after you get married and whether you are ready to accept these changes or not. You are more...

Marriage is Outdated in the 21st Century

by Diana-Mara Anghelina- I have come to believe that each and every single person in this world has at least once pondered upon the idea of getting married. It is the nature of man not to lead a solitaire life and try to settle down and have children. Nevertheless, when did marriage start to become less and less popular? Is it the divorce rate that scares people off? Or is it the way...

Marriage Is An Old-Fashioned Institution Which Causes More Hate Than Love

by Herminne Tonita - Do You Or Don't You? Many young couples decide to wait before getting married as they believe that marriage is now an old-fashioned institution which causes more hate than love. There are many reasons which would make you believe such statements. When you get married to become in some way addicted to the person to whom you share your life. You always want to know where...

What Makes a Happy Marriage

by Herminne Tonita - The ingredients for the successful recipe of a happy marriage…wow…it is a little bit difficult to answer this question…first of all much love and respect…if the basis of any relationship, not only a marriage, is not constituted by mutual respect then it won't last. When you get to the point when you lye or you hide certain things from your partner that moment you realize...

Is Love Necessary for a Good Marriage?

by Herminne Tonita - The formal institution of marriage should always be based on love and not on other reasons like money, comfort, interest or mutual conventions. If you choose to marry the person to whom you have been sharing quite a long period of time it is quite obvious you should do it if you love him or her. There are all kinds of marriages based on specific conventions between both...

Breaking Up with Daddy Is Not the End of the World

by Herminne Tonita - You have just ended an important chapter in your life: your marriage. But how do you tell your child that daddy is not living with you anymore? He is at the age when he doesn't understand too well what is going on around him. For him the most important persons are mum and dad. That is why when the parents break up the cruel reality affects his entire universe. When...

Finances in a Marriage

by Herminne Tonita - The basis of any marriage is the mutual respect between partners. If you have it you can live happily ever after. You always take the important decisions together and you don't do anything without consulting the husband. You are always very careful not to hurt the partner with lines that annoy him and that you don't really even mean. In a marriage both partners should...

Powerful Women - A Danger for the Matrimony

by Herminne Tonita - When the woman is the boss in the house what happens with the harmony in the couple? If she is the boss at her job must she also be the boss in the house or the decision must be taken together? Even if the man doesn't make so much money as his wife hasn't he the same rights as she does? This difference between husband and wife many times leads to the divorce of the...

Remarrying

by Herminne Tonita - Do you want to start your life all over again and you have decided to try and make this step the second time too? Think it through until you are 100% sure of what you are going to do because the second marriage can turn out to be worse than the first time. It is natural after a failure to want to reorganize your life. And, at the same time it is natural to think you will...

Who Suffers The Most After a Divorce?

by Herminne Tonita - Numberless TV talk shows have taken into consideration this topic when they interviewed TV stars, actors and singers. Who suffers the most then parents decide to break up? The answer is obvious: children do so, especially if they at a very young age and don't fully understand what is going on around them. If your child is at the age when he fully understands reality and is...